Families are complex and multilayered. On one end of the polarity we are lucky we have families in which we are planted. There is a beautiful imagery given in the gospel of Luke 13: 6-9: a fig tree planted in a vineyard. Unlike vines, fig trees are not so fragile; they grow even in wild surroundings. But in this passage, Jesus talks about a fig planted in a vineyard, with a fence around it to protect it, and watered and manured to promote growth, blooming, and bearing fruit. Family is like that vineyard. We should be grateful that we are planted in a family. Whether we realise or not we would be lesser if we did not have our brother, or sister, or mother, father, grandparents, grand children, and so on. It is like not having a member of our body. Second Vatican council rightly calls families as, domestic churches. At the same time, on the other end of the polarity, family is one of the least critiqued, least audited, least questioned, and least brought to book institutions. Nobody...
We, as humans, are rational, political, spiritual, social, and psychological beings; with strong longing for aesthetics, freedom, survival, and going beyond. We need doses of INSPIRATIONS, and vital SUPPORT SYSTEMS almost daily. A book, an art, a person, an idea, an example, etc. could be, on the one hand, an inspiration (SPRINGBOARD) when we do not know how to jump up to the next step; on the other hand, could be a support system (WALKING STICK) when we are vulnerable and prone to fall.